Posts Tagged ‘no shame in this game’


30 Days of Kink

October 26, 2010

I’m a little late to the party but I saw this post over at Insatiable Desire and I had to borrow the prompts, so without further ado:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

I identify as a switch although I’ve had partners where our relationship was strictly one or the other.

Day 2: List your kinks.

I’m more of a sadomasochist than anything with various types of impact play being my personal favorite, but I can also get very into role play and humiliation play depending on my partner. Also leather gets me wet, whether its a leather flogger or a perfectly fitted pair of leather pants.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

There was no one particular lightbulb moment where I realized “oh yes, this is what I’m into”, although I did write about a defining instance in this post. That said, it was a combination of bedroom power struggles, playful spankings, and a couple key discoveries online that led me to figure it all out (and fairly early on as well – I discovered BDSM in high school).

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Remember the musical version of Camelot? Watching Guinevere being captured, jailed, and ritually marched through the crowd to be tied to the stake and burned still does it for me.

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Probably the first time I convinced a boyfriend to let me tie him to the bed…wasn’t too difficult :).

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October 19, 2010

One might be tempted to think that the lack of updates means I haven’t been up to anything interesting lately. Quite the contrary – I’ve been so busy doing fun things that I haven’t had the time or inclination to update my blog.

After all, “Its the good girls who keep the diaries, bad girls don’t have time.” That said, I’m embarking on a couple new endeavors so there will be new updates, here or another location. Stay tuned.

You can also follow me on twitter @thatsortofgirl.


10 New Things

May 2, 2010

Since I’ve started this blog, I’ve had the opportunity to try many new things.

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10 Things I Want To Do

April 22, 2010

1. Have actual professional pictures taken of myself in various outfits and states of undress. Unsurprisingly, I’ve had some amateur fun, but there’s nothing like an expert.

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Delicious Pain

April 20, 2010

I’m much more masochistic than I am submissive, says the girl with bruises on her ass and thighs that are quite…impressive. I like to think of them as souvenirs from time well and pleasurably spent (granted, my pale Irish skin ensures that I get marked up quite easily).

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On Meeting Readers

April 20, 2010

Perhaps I’m making an unfair assumption, but I tend to think that most bloggers who write primarily about sex are anonymous or close to it. On the contrary, while I don’t put my real name on this blog, I’m not particularly secretive about it – which leads to the interesting experience of knowing that people might be reading about themselves on this blog (hi “Natalie”!).

Despite the fact that I sincerely avoid self-censorship in my writing, I sometimes wonder what people I may write about (I never use real names or any kind of identifying details) might think. However, I never will let that affect what I write here or any other place – it is just something interesting to think about.


50 More Things About Me

March 16, 2010

The sequel to this list:

1. My favorite is a deep rich red; in fact my bedroom is done in that luscious red and gold.

2. I went to Catholic school and I still have the uniform – and it still fits.

3. That reminds of how I’ve always wanted to do a striptease to Cherry Bomb (this idea occurred to me before the debut of The Runaways preview, but that is certainly quite interesting).

4. On that note, for someone who’s never been a stripper I’m pretty good on the pole thanks to years of dance and figure skating.

5. I have quite the shoe collection – and I think there’s really nothing better than a pair of high heels in terms of looking and feeling hot.

6. I’m happy that fetish-y pieces like latex/leather leggings and buckled, strappy boots are in mainstream fashion at the moment, since it makes finding fun pieces that much easier.

7. While the stories on my blog are true, I have a hard time writing about something until at least a few weeks after it happened. I need to turn things over and over in my head first.

8. Like many writers, I have a tendency to overthink, which is why I like doing things that get me out of my own head. Like kinky sex. And paragliding.

9. There’s something about a man’s hand on my neck that makes me instantly get wet.

10. I’d love to do a classic pin-up style photo shoot one of these days.

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