Posts Tagged ‘freaksexuality’


30 Days of Kink

October 26, 2010

I’m a little late to the party but I saw this post over at Insatiable Desire and I had to borrow the prompts, so without further ado:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

I identify as a switch although I’ve had partners where our relationship was strictly one or the other.

Day 2: List your kinks.

I’m more of a sadomasochist than anything with various types of impact play being my personal favorite, but I can also get very into role play and humiliation play depending on my partner. Also leather gets me wet, whether its a leather flogger or a perfectly fitted pair of leather pants.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

There was no one particular lightbulb moment where I realized “oh yes, this is what I’m into”, although I did write about a defining instance in this post. That said, it was a combination of bedroom power struggles, playful spankings, and a couple key discoveries online that led me to figure it all out (and fairly early on as well – I discovered BDSM in high school).

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Remember the musical version of Camelot? Watching Guinevere being captured, jailed, and ritually marched through the crowd to be tied to the stake and burned still does it for me.

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Probably the first time I convinced a boyfriend to let me tie him to the bed…wasn’t too difficult :).

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Delicious Pain

April 20, 2010

I’m much more masochistic than I am submissive, says the girl with bruises on her ass and thighs that are quite…impressive. I like to think of them as souvenirs from time well and pleasurably spent (granted, my pale Irish skin ensures that I get marked up quite easily).

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Public Service Announcement

April 16, 2010

Probably unsurprising but when you take 85 lashes with a leather belt, it will hurt to sit down for quite a few days.

This has been a public service announcement courtesy of She’s That Kind Of Girl.


Quote of the Day

March 24, 2010

“I’d like to meet a man who will open doors for me and tell me I’m beautiful…and then tie me up and whip the hell out of me in private.”

Guess who said this recently?


50 More Things About Me

March 16, 2010

The sequel to this list:

1. My favorite is a deep rich red; in fact my bedroom is done in that luscious red and gold.

2. I went to Catholic school and I still have the uniform – and it still fits.

3. That reminds of how I’ve always wanted to do a striptease to Cherry Bomb (this idea occurred to me before the debut of The Runaways preview, but that is certainly quite interesting).

4. On that note, for someone who’s never been a stripper I’m pretty good on the pole thanks to years of dance and figure skating.

5. I have quite the shoe collection – and I think there’s really nothing better than a pair of high heels in terms of looking and feeling hot.

6. I’m happy that fetish-y pieces like latex/leather leggings and buckled, strappy boots are in mainstream fashion at the moment, since it makes finding fun pieces that much easier.

7. While the stories on my blog are true, I have a hard time writing about something until at least a few weeks after it happened. I need to turn things over and over in my head first.

8. Like many writers, I have a tendency to overthink, which is why I like doing things that get me out of my own head. Like kinky sex. And paragliding.

9. There’s something about a man’s hand on my neck that makes me instantly get wet.

10. I’d love to do a classic pin-up style photo shoot one of these days.

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Sunday Morning Coming Down

March 5, 2010

I woke up to the feeling of Christian’s hand on my ass, rubbing the spots where he’d spanked me the night before. He had started off gently, gradually massaging harder until I was wide awake thanks to the pain in my tender, bruised flesh.

“Mmm that hurts so good”, I finally said, wanting him to stop while at the same time enjoying the memory of the wild, memorable night we’d had.

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That Kind Of Girl…Who Takes Control

March 4, 2010

After I had my turn on top, it was time for me to pay attention to Natalie. I wasn’t going to make it easy for her, though.

After taking a few minutes to get my strength back (my girl is quite…skillfull), I rolled on top of her and grabbed her hands, holding them above her head and kissing her more demandingly. Remember, this was still the first time I had ever taken any kind of control – prior to today, we had stuck with the kind of strictly egalitarian yet sensual sex that only a pair of women can manage.

However, something had shifted earlier when she had gotten down on her knees in front of me. The mix of surrender and lust in her almond shaped brown eyes had flipped some kind of switch inside me. At the time, however, I wasn’t quite sure what to do next…

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