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30 Days of Kink: Day 28

August 3, 2014

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

It really depends on my partner and the scene in general, but I love black leather, stockings, and high heels in general. Actually I love lingerie as a rule, and I do believe that you shouldn’t save the good stuff for a special occasion. Costumes can be fun too though.

Favorite colors are jewel tones and black (of course), and I’ve never met a pair of high strappy heels or boots I didn’t like. Leather pants, dresses, and latex leggings or catsuits are other favorites. And of course, I always like a pair of thigh high socks and tight little shorts too!

In regard to significance, it depends on the role. I do tend to pick out stuff with a harder edge when I am topping, but I can dominate in white lace too. It all depends on the dynamic.



30 Days of Kink: Day 15

July 14, 2014

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Oh, where do I start? I’ve been lucky enough to experience plenty of amazing things over the years, but there are always new horizons to explore as well.

Let’s make a list, shall we?

1. Sex on a train – not really kinky, but it needs to be on the list. WHY have I not done this? Considering the amount of traveling I have done over the years (including with partners) and the fact that I live in a city with a remarkable public transportation system, this should happen.

2. More needle play/play piercings, this time with actual sex. (Obviously done in a safe fashion, of course).

3. Fucking a girl with a strap-on while I’m getting fucked myself. MFF threesome time!

4. Being told to wear a butt plug while I’m out and about with my partner – a naughty secret! And then going home to fuck each others’ brains out.

5. Playing stripper/escort for the night with my partner (and anyone who says this is glamorizing sex work, save it. I understand its not everyone’s choice, but that’s why it is a fantasy on some levels. That said, discover some more about mine and others feelings on this matter via #rightsnotrescue, and keep in mind that fantasies aren’t necessarily politically correct).

6. Have sex while covered in my own birthday cake with my partner(s) and eating it off each other. #Sugarsexmagick!

7. Do amateur night or something similar at an actual strip club.

8. Keep a partner in my office to use as a sex slave for an entire work day – tied up. (granted I would give them breaks and food – I’m not that evil). I get frustrated! Chains involved, ideally.

9. Playing with an anal hook (used on me).

10. Having a take-down style wrestling match (ideally in an actual ring) with my partner that ends in sex. Very hot sex.

Please feel free to share the kinky things that you would like to do in the comments!




30 Days of Kink: Day 13

July 11, 2014

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

I like role playing, power dynamics and experimenting with different scenarios (and orgasms, of course, but who doesn’t?). And I enjoy exploring new fantasies with my partners.



30 Days of Kink: Day 8

July 6, 2014

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic. Not necessarily the most overtly sexual, but most of the best erotica isn’t (in my opinion).

Domme on a Throne

A Queen Needs Her Throne


30 Days of Kink: Day 6

July 5, 2014

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

Perhaps the most interesting depends on the reader (freaky is in the eye of the beholder after all), but one of my latest favorite kinks involves interrogation/prison/torture ideas. Of course, it depends on my partner in regard to the fact whether I am the interrogator or the prisoner.

I could maybe blame Homeland, Scandal, Law and Order SVU, and other similar procedural dramas for this sort of thing, or I could just be wired that way.




Happy Halloween: Light Me Up

October 19, 2010

Last Saturday I dressed as a superhero for Halloween party held at a dungeon and attended by a variety of kinky folk. Not a superhero you’d be familiar with, one that my man and I dreamed up. My outfit included silver glitter fishnets, a black fishnet bra and thong, black boots, and a rather fluffy white and silver wig; the centerpiece was my silver glitter strap-on, which was the inspiration behind the costume.

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10 New Things

May 2, 2010

Since I’ve started this blog, I’ve had the opportunity to try many new things.

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