Well, ladies and gentlemen, we have come to the end:
Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about. And I’m going to skip writing in favor of posting one of the hottest pictures I have ever seen:
Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?
I don’t have a particular title, although I like playing with language and names in general. It depends on the person I am with, really.
Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
It really depends on my partner and the scene in general, but I love black leather, stockings, and high heels in general. Actually I love lingerie as a rule, and I do believe that you shouldn’t save the good stuff for a special occasion. Costumes can be fun too though.
Favorite colors are jewel tones and black (of course), and I’ve never met a pair of high strappy heels or boots I didn’t like. Leather pants, dresses, and latex leggings or catsuits are other favorites. And of course, I always like a pair of thigh high socks and tight little shorts too!
In regard to significance, it depends on the role. I do tend to pick out stuff with a harder edge when I am topping, but I can dominate in white lace too. It all depends on the dynamic.
Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
Music can definitely play a role for me – and I have very different selections depending on whether I’m topping or bottoming.
Topping = metal, dirty Detroit-style rap, electroclash, or anything with a heavy beat.
Bottoming = softer electronica, ballads, or no music at all.
When it comes to role-play and kinkiness in general, sometimes I can get into character – playing roles from some of my favorite books or movies. That shouldn’t be surprising, since I am a writer after all!
Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?
It can be a great way to experiment (and some fantasies , but nothing compares to the real thing with someone that you’re really into and that you trust.
Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?
Pretty damn open – after all, if you aren’t open about your desires, how will you ever get what you want?
Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?
Intelligence and creativity. While there are obviously some physical qualities that I prefer in both males and females, it really is all about the mental connection.