30 Days of Kink

I’m a little late to the party but I saw this post over at Insatiable Desire and I had to borrow the prompts, so without further ado:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

I identify as a switch although I’ve had partners where our relationship was strictly one or the other.

Day 2: List your kinks.

I’m more of a sadomasochist than anything with various types of impact play being my personal favorite, but I can also get very into role play and humiliation play depending on my partner. Also leather gets me wet, whether its a leather flogger or a perfectly fitted pair of leather pants.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

There was no one particular lightbulb moment where I realized “oh yes, this is what I’m into”, although I did write about a defining instance in this post. That said, it was a combination of bedroom power struggles, playful spankings, and a couple key discoveries online that led me to figure it all out (and fairly early on as well – I discovered BDSM in high school).

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Remember the musical version of Camelot? Watching Guinevere being captured, jailed, and ritually marched through the crowd to be tied to the stake and burned still does it for me.

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Probably the first time I convinced a boyfriend to let me tie him to the bed…wasn’t too difficult .

New Toys

I have a new toy.

50 More Things About Me

The sequel to this list:

1. My favorite is a deep rich red; in fact my bedroom is done in that luscious red and gold.

2. I went to Catholic school and I still have the uniform – and it still fits.

3. That reminds of how I’ve always wanted to do a striptease to Cherry Bomb (this idea occurred to me before the debut of The Runaways preview, but that is certainly quite interesting).

4. On that note, for someone who’s never been a stripper I’m pretty good on the pole thanks to years of dance and figure skating.

5. I have quite the shoe collection – and I think there’s really nothing better than a pair of high heels in terms of looking and feeling hot.

6. I’m happy that fetish-y pieces like latex/leather leggings and buckled, strappy boots are in mainstream fashion at the moment, since it makes finding fun pieces that much easier.

7. While the stories on my blog are true, I have a hard time writing about something until at least a few weeks after it happened. I need to turn things over and over in my head first.

8. Like many writers, I have a tendency to overthink, which is why I like doing things that get me out of my own head. Like kinky sex. And paragliding.

9. There’s something about a man’s hand on my neck that makes me instantly get wet.

10. I’d love to do a classic pin-up style photo shoot one of these days.

The Devil’s In The Details: 50 Things About Me

You’re not a blogger until you’ve written at least one version of this list it seems – here’s the x-rated version of mine:

1. My mind is perpetually in the gutter – I’m a girl with a one track mind.

2. On that note, one of my favorite activities when on a plane or public transportation of any kind is to assess the potential fuckability of my fellow passengers.

3. However, I rarely follow up on this – I’m more of a third date girl.

4. I’ve been with more than twice as many women as men.

5. That said, I’d still put my overall preferences at 50/50, I’m a 3 on the Kinsey Scale.

6. My bad or negative moods can almost always be fixed by an orgasm.

7. I get myself off every morning when I first wake up, it starts the day off right.

8. Perfecting my ability to come quickly and quietly has proven extraordinarily useful.

9. But I’d still rather have the opportunity and the partner who can make me moan, scream, and shake.

10. I have a filthy mouth – when I get going, I will say things that surprise even myself.

The list goes on, after the jump: